What is "Relationship Conflicts" ?

by Charan Kumar K

​An overview 
A relationship is nothing but two different personalities with different perspectives coming together. Therefore, when they are not inclusive and do not understand each other's feelings and differences, conflict arises in the relationship.
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Conflict in a relationship is defined as any type of disagreement, quarrel, or heated argument between two people in a relationship. It often involves persistent arguments or disagreements over ongoing issues – like how to handle household chores or how to spend money

Main causes:

•  Power and control
•  Selfishness
•  Criticism
•  Lack of communication
•  High expectations
•  Resentment

 
Various types of relationship conflicts
 
1) Relationship conflicts usually revolve around money.
 
It can be any aspect of how you save, spend, or budget your money as a couple.
 
2) Household responsibilities.
 
This conflict is related to the delegation or distribution of household chores. This can happen when one partner does more than the other to take care of household chores and basic responsibilities. This breeds resentment and leads to conflict.
 
3) Inappropriate Communication.
 
Conflicts around communication arise when both parties yell at each other and argue violently.
 
4) Personal Intimacy.
 
This type of conflict revolves around sexual needs/desires. This usually happens when one partner's sexual needs/desires are very different from the other.
 
5) Uncertainty.
 
When a partner in a relationship often feels insecure, arguments and conflicts arise. In uncertain extremes, it can also lead to finger pointing, which makes any conversation difficult.
 
Impact of conflict and stress on relationships

• Dissatisfaction and decreased satisfaction with relationships
• Emotional and physical withdrawal from everything
• Lack of interest in developing conflict resolution strategies
• Different types of conflict in relationships

Differences in relationships are common.
But what matters is what you choose to do with it.
How you and your partner deal with problems can make or break the health of your relationship. 
 
How to deal with relationship conflict?

1. Stay calm and respectful.
2. Create a friendly environment for open and transparent communication.
3. Be direct to your partner.
4. Talk to professionals.

 
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